性喚起、各種性癖整理、性偏好、促進與激發敏感帶－玲瑄小姐 Lynsey

性喚起、性癖、性偏好、促進與激發敏感帶

性喚起常牽涉到相應的心理的(如有關思維、學習、情緒等)、社會的(如風俗、道德、倫理、習慣等)與生理的(如腦、內臟、肌膚、神經系統等的動態變化)過程，且上三類因素也常相互關聯和整合為一體。全身尤其是心、肺、血管、神經、肌肉等都可有較劇烈的反應直至最大性喚起的性高潮發生為特徵的不同階段性驅動力的程度

滿足多樣的性渴望”（desire）、性衝動”（arousal）、性幻想（fantasies）

人們對於性的幻想並不是千篇一律的，且男性和女性所幻想的內容也存在差異。加拿大蒙特利爾大學的研究者Joyal等人（2015）對1516名成年人的性幻想內容進行了研究，並總結了人們最常見與最罕見的對性的幻想（共有55種，詳細列表可以參見原文）。其中：

男性性幻想內容的前三名

1. 進行口交

2. 同時與兩名女性進行性行為

3. 與伴侶外的其他人發生性關係

女性性幻想內容的前三名

1. 在浪漫的地點發生性行為

2. 在非常規地點發生性行為，例如人多的公共場合

3. 進行口交

另外，他們發現，最罕見的幻想內容包括了與12歲以下的兒童發生性關係（0.8%女性和1.8%的男性曾幻想過）、與動物發生性關係（3%的女性和2.2%的男性）等。

這裡，可能有人會問“幻想和未成年人發生性關係”也是可以的嗎？從臨床診斷的角度上看，只要人們對於性的幻想並未對幻想的人以及被幻想的物件造成傷害，那麼這種性幻想則不被認為是病理性的。

特殊的性幻想與普通的對性的幻想存在著明顯的區別：

► 首先，精神障礙中的性幻想中對於性的想像是強迫性的，帶有難以抑制的衝動。例如，有些人會“幻想”自己將生殖器暴露給他人以獲得滿足感。有露陰障礙的人會感覺自己這種“幻想”是不受控制的、在腦海中揮之不去的，而普通性幻想的人則是可以控制自己的這種想法。

► 並且這會造成幻想的人本身內心的不適，如產生內疚感、羞恥等，影響其自身的性功能及其他社會生活的功能。

► 很多時候，這種性幻想還會被付諸實踐，從而對他人造成身體和/或心理的傷害。

在此強調，並不是所有關於上述8種內容的性幻想都是病理性的，只要自己能夠控制、不讓自己產生負面的情緒、不付諸實踐，上述幻想內容都可以是健康的。

精神障礙診斷手冊中也強調，那些非強迫性的、且對自己和他人都無害的性幻想應該被認為是人們對於性的不同愛好，而不應該被視為精神障礙的表現。下文中所提到的性幻想，也都指的是一種非病理性的性幻想。

可能與文化中對性的羞恥與壓抑有關，不同於人類其他的想像，對於性的想像常常被認為是一種禁忌（LaFata, 2014），人們對於性幻想也存在著許多迷思。

4種常見的性幻想及它們的內涵

1. 控制與服從（Dominance & submission）

Emily Dubberley在她的《欲望花園》（Garden of Desires）一書中指出，人們的性幻想常常與“控制感”有關，例如，人們會幻想自己出軌、施虐，或幻想在性愛過程中堅持自己的特殊癖好等等。幻想“控制”，實際上是一種對關係中的權力的欲望。幻想控制，可能與個人在日常生活中的角色有關。平時在生活中受到更多控制的人，會寄希望於通過性幻想來平衡內心對於控制和權力的渴望。

也有些人認為，這種對控制的幻想是社會文化中暴力色情化的延伸（LaFata, 2014），例如一些影視作品中暴力與色情的呼應（angry sex is the best），讓人對暴力下的性產生了好奇和嚮往。

而人們對於“服從”的幻想，則包括了幻想自己服從於一個更有權威和統治力的對方、受虐或遭受性侵犯等等。

人們通過幻想服從，使自己感覺得以接近那個充滿力量的、擁有眾多資源和魅力的現象中的伴侶（Hutson, 2009）。以服從對方來獲得對對方的佔有感，並且通過這種“佔有”，感覺自己與對方共用了那種力量、資源和魅力，分享了一個更強大的個體的榮光。

很多人會誤以為，既然幻想服從、受虐待或性侵，就意味著這個人本身是願意接受被侵犯。但事實卻大相徑庭，在想像中服從，這些人也會感受到自己是有主動選擇的權利的。他們通過“主動服從”也能獲得一種控制感。而現實的強姦或性侵顯然並非如此，因此，性幻想並不能作為一些惡行實施的藉口。

不僅如此，控制與服從在性幻想中，從來都是一體兩面的。正如，Seltzer（2012）所說，人們控制的欲望中包含著服從，而服從的欲望裡也包含著控制。如前文所述，幻想服從的人可能實際上是希望以服從獲得控制感，而幻想控制則可能是為了平衡所作出的服從。

2. 被觀看（Being watched）

人們也會幻想自己的性愛過程中有見證者（witness），幻想自己在公開場所，例如人潮湧動的夜店或者面對一大片落地玻璃窗進行性行為，又或者幻想錄製自己的性愛視頻。

Laura Berman博士認為，這種對於被觀看的幻想，主要是由於對“被窺探”的恐懼可能帶來興奮感。他認為，人們內心對被看見、被偷窺所產生的恐懼，會導致腎上腺素的升高，從而使人產生興奮感（LaFata, 2014）。

另外，哥倫比亞大學醫學中心的精神科醫師Drew Ramsey指出，帶有展示意義的性（exhibition-style sex）本身就能夠讓人感受到強烈的自我膨脹，它包含了對見證者的挑逗性，讓人感受到自己的性魅力和力量感，從而帶來快感與對自己的滿足感（LaFata, 2014）。

3. 角色扮演（Role-playing）

幻想角色扮演，包括幻想改變性格特徵或者從著裝打扮到行為舉止的整體改變。最常見的對角色扮演的幻想包括老師與學生、護士與病人、脫衣舞著與顧客等（LaFata, 2014）。角色扮演本身就包含著人們對於“控制與服從”的幻想，例如老師與學生。

角色扮演中的控制與服從很多時候是通過“制服”來實現的。可以說，制服是對一個人的規訓（服從），也可以說制服是一種自我規訓（控制）。制服愛好者通常也有著強烈的控制欲。

與制服有關的“控制與服從”在平常生活中也可以見到。在一個案例中，有一個學生對待校服永遠一絲不苟，從上衣、褲子、襪子、鞋子都完全按照學校規定穿著。在有些人看來，ta是一個校方規定的“服從者”，但在ta自己看來，只有對自我的嚴格規訓，才能不再給他人以規訓自己的空間。而這實際上又是一種“控制者”的表現。

此外，人們通過幻想身著角色制服，而獲得制服角色新的、與自身不同的力量、氣質與魅力。

而另一方面，制服也成為了人們“性羞恥感”的一種救贖。人們通過制服，將自己在性行為中的一切舉止表現與自己本身分離開來（躲在了制服身份的背後）——脫離制服之後，我就還是原來的我，我無需為性愛過程中的任何行為感到羞恥。

4. 非典型一對一（Atypical one-on-one session）

還有一種常見的性幻想，是幻想自己與名人明星、與同性（性教育工作者Laci Green認為異性戀者也有可能幻想與同性發生性關係）、前女友/男友或陌生人發生性關係。

研究發現，正在處於交往中的人當中，98%的男性與80%的女性曾經幻想過與其他人發生性關係（Bernstein, 2016）。可能有人會有疑問，在親密關係中幻想和其他人發生關係，是否是一種“出軌”呢？又會否對親密關係造成影響呢？

就目前的研究來看，大多數人在幻想與其他人發生性關係時，就僅僅停留在幻想，並不會付諸實踐（當然，資料顯示還是有16%的人確實與性幻想物件發生了關係）（ABC News, 2004）。

一方面，性是一種極端親密的狀態和行為形式。通過性幻想，人們感到拉近自己與渴望之人的距離。但也有很多時候，這種性幻想只是人性普遍的好奇心的一種反應——幻想一個人並不必然代表對這個人懷有情感，甚至並不必然代表對這個物件懷有真實的欲望。

從現有的研究來看，性幻想更多的還是給人們的生活帶來了積極意義。

性幻想的內容

與人格特質、依戀類型有關

1. 人格特質

Hutson（2009）發現，A型人格，即具有進取心、成就取向的人，更容易幻想“服從”，而B型人格，即平時與世無爭、好相處的人，則更容易幻想“控制”。這再次說明了服從與控制的密不可分，人們會通過性幻想來平衡生活中的權力關係，獲得平時生活中所缺失的部分。

2. 依戀類型

依戀類型與我們的親密關係息息相關，也自然會影響人們的性以及對性的想像。安全型依戀的人，更常對性行為發生的地點進行想像，浪漫有愛的場景最常出現在他們的性幻想中。

Hutson（2009）指出，回避型依戀的人，因為內心害怕與他人過於親密，因而常常在性幻想中，更容易想像自己和一些無感情聯繫的陌生人發生性行為。而總是害怕對方離開的焦慮型依戀的人，則更多幻想自己處於服從的角色、取悅對方，從而控制對方不會離開。

性幻想有利於保持親密和欲望

還有利於保持身材

正如Esther Perel所說，性幻想是溝通現實與陌生的橋樑，是長期關係的粘合劑。它在我們日常生活的種種束縛與限制之外，開闢了一個獨立的、私人的空間，讓我們能夠真實地表達和釋放自我（Perel, 2015）。

1. 保持親密和欲望

研究發現，當伴侶雙方分享自己的性幻想內容時，他們彼此能感到更親密和信任，也能夠喚起和保持對彼此的欲望（Scott, 1994）。同時，性幻想也會讓人們更傾向于向對方直接表達愛意以及情感支持（Bernstein, 2016）。甚至有些伴侶能通過談論性幻想來獲得一種非性交式快感（outercourse）（Rathus, Nevid, Fichner-Rathus, Herold, & McKenzie, 2005）。

2. 保持體態

英國約克大學的一項研究發現，性幻想所帶來的浪漫感覺會提升人體的催產素水準（oxytocin）。催產素是人體的一種荷爾蒙。催產素水準的提升會抑制人們的食欲（Olson, 2016）。這就好像是將人們對食物的渴望轉移至對伴侶的欲望上，從而有助於幫助人們吃的更少，保持體態。（想吃伴侶，能夠讓你更不想吃東西啊）

* 既然人們對於性有如此之多的幻想，且大多數幻想都是有積極意義的，那麼，人們究竟應不應該將這些幻想付諸實踐呢？

性諮詢師Linda Alperstein認為，性幻想與生活就像不同軌道的兩輛列車（LaFata,2014），兩者不應該有所干涉。不過我們認為，不同軌道上的兩輛列車在嚴格的安排與約束下，仍然可以有“並軌”的可能。

首先，性幻想是否能夠付諸實踐，取決於性幻想的內容。如果涉及傷害自己或他人，傷害彼此的感情，甚至是觸犯法律的，那麼這樣的幻想顯然不能加以實施。

其次，還取決於伴侶雙方的溝通，瞭解彼此的底線和邊界。讓幻想成為現實的時候，是有利於雙方關係的（如上文所述）。你們能夠通過對方常有的性幻想的模式，更深入的理解對方的人格結構，內心深處的願望，對日常生活的感受；你們通過分析性幻想加強對對方的信任感；感受到一種更貼近的距離。

但對性幻想的付諸實踐要注意循序漸進，符合你們彼此之間信任和情感的狀態。例如，在一段嚴肅、有承諾性的關係中（原本的目的就比較隨意的關係不在此討論範圍內），如果你的性幻想是穿制服，那可能在一起幾個月時就可以實施；而如果你的性幻想是多人一起參與，可能二十年的夫妻才有可能開口討論。

性，歸根結底是關於讓對方瞭解最深處的你，關於最深的信任感，關於控制與失控的一件事。瞭解你的性，也是瞭解你自己的重要的途徑。

一項研究發現性變態(sexual perversions, 也稱paraphilia)十分常見，大約有一半人都有性變態傾向。心理學家對加拿大魁北克超過千人進行了調查，發現將近50%的參與者對戀物癖、摩擦癖、受虐傾向和窺淫癖等現象表示了興趣。並不僅是幻想的程度，而是渴求和實際行動。

有35%的人（包括男性和女性）都報告了自己的窺淫癖，而戀物癖占了20%，受虐狂占19%，摩擦癖（通過用自己的性器官摩擦他人身體來獲得快感）占26%。

Joyal教授和他的團隊對居住在魁北克的1040人進行了電話採訪，詢問他們的性生活情況。而46%的人表示他們對至少一種異常性行為感興趣。

儘管這項發表在性學研究期刊(The Journal of Sex Research)的研究只包含了魁北克的參與者，但Joyal教授說這個結果可以推廣到整個北美和歐洲地區。

很多“異常性行為”現在已經不再異常，性變態不認為是疾病也不會給他人帶來傷害，除非該行為嚴重影響到正常生活作息，否則多數者不會認為自己需要尋求醫療協助。多數人只知道接受、順從、並找方法滿足自己的癖好。所以它們應該被劃分為正常性行為。

“物品、裝扮、場景、對象，成為參與者的性愛偏好，或是性滿足所必須的條件”

具體說來就是在xx過程中需要某種方式才能讓自己興奮起來。

可以幫助有非常美妙的體驗性高潮（ orgasm）對很多人來說，這些異常的性行為是獲得性快感所必需的。

有些專家認為有這些情況會造成問題為前提，其實只要適當並不影響生活的話都是Ok的，我不停止的仍然天天照做，事實上顯示卻過得很好。

代稱此處翻譯的癖; (從某事物獲得性快感的)

癖的成因和機制假設包括：

美學: 純粹對視覺上的吸引力與滿足感。

童年：在童年生活中與一個或多個有吸引力的同儕相處。

衝動: 認為是個性大膽或衝動的符號，暗示濫交。

風格：從身體語言中感受到男性氣概或女性氣概。

媒體：媒體的色情描述，特別是電視、電影與色情片的描述。

勸說：有著促使另一人的說服力。

性心理發展: 依據佛洛依德的理論，屬於口腔期與性器期固著的後果

虐戀：對傷害感到性愉悅。

自信：認為會挑戰禁忌之舉、題升信心，並象徵財富。

禁忌：感知到行為的獨立性與叛逆性，並瞭解文化逆境。

奢侈：認為是富人的象徵。

診斷戀癖的診斷標準是：

不尋常的性幻想、欲望或實際行為維持六個月或以上。時隱時現的性幻想並不需要醫學治療。受到影響的他人、她的所有物或其它的人在多方面受到傷害或痛苦，這包括生活的各方面，例如私下的社交生活、職場等。如果受到了傷害或虐待，則必須接受治療。

xx或觀看他人xx時產生性方面的欲望。

對xx或觀看他人xx有反復且強烈的性幻想。

經常且強烈地讓自己受到性的驅使而xx或觀看他人xx。

美國精神病協會(The American Psychiatric Association)的心理障礙診斷統計手冊(Diagnositc and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)

露體癖(Exhibitionistic)——在公眾場合因性行為暴露於他人面前而引起的覺醒，不論是否得到他人或被暴露者的同意。以獲得快感。

暴陰癖（Peodeiktophilia）：因暴露陰莖而引起的性喚起。

囊袋癖（Sacofricosis）在口袋裡挖個洞在公共場合自慰的過程。

窺淫癖(Voyeuristic)——偷窺他人在不知情的情況下，裸體、性交過程以獲得快感。

觀看興奮Autagonistophilia: 在舞臺上或鏡頭下引起的興奮。

三方性愛主義（Troilism）看著自己的伴侶與他人發生性關係，也可能二女一男或二男一女同時進行的，或是協力廠商不知情；也被稱為綠帽子主義（cuckoldism）。

摩擦癖(Frotteuristic)——在擁擠場所故意與不同意的人摩擦以獲得快感。反復、強烈的性渴求、性想像涉及以生殖器接觸不認識的人臀部，並付諸行動。摩擦而引起的性喚起。

灌腸癖（Klismaphilia）灌腸引起的興奮。

濕的和淩亂的戀物癖（WAM）：通常被稱為飛濺；一種被食物相關的物質故意和大量地應用於裸露的皮膚，主要是面部，或人們穿的衣服上而引起的興奮。它常與坐蛋糕有關。

畸形癖（Teratophilia）：對畸形人的吸引力。

戀身障興奮(Abasiophilia) ——對行動受損人群,尤其是使用矯形器械的人,如腿部矯正器,矯形器或輪椅的人的性吸引。

慕殘興奮(Acrotomophilia)指一個人迷戀殘疾人或熱衷於變為殘疾人，一般分為慕殘者（devotee），扮殘者（ pretender）（Apotemnophilia）和自殘者（wannabe）。慕殘者通常在少年時便出現對殘疾人感興趣的傾向，他們常常幻想成為截肢者。有的慕殘者會與網上認識的殘疾人約會，發生性關係。

BDSM

踢睾打屁股性角色扮演戀醫學

物戀動物戀性偏好性偏離戀物次文化皮革自豪之旗國際戀物日（英語：International Fetish Day）橡膠自豪之旗（英語：Rubber pride flag）

性虐快感(algolagnia)：疼痛引起的覺醒，特別是涉及到一個性感的區域；不同於受虐狂，因為對感覺有不同的生物學解釋，而不是主觀解釋。任何與從經歷或造成生理或心理痛苦中獲得快感有關的其定義是從身體疼痛中獲得性快感和刺激，特別是涉及到性區域

受虐癖(masochism)——喜歡被羞辱虐待並可以從中獲取快感。

挨揍癖（Rhabdo phillia）從被粗暴毆打中喚起性興奮。

施虐癖(sadism) 施虐癖施虐癖指看到他人遭受鞭打、捆綁、羞辱或對別人進行虐待可以得到性興奮或樂趣的人。鞭打（Dippoldism）

強姦癖（Biastophilia）：因強姦不同意的人的行為或思想而引起的。

強姦癖（Rapto philia）由強姦引起的，自願的或非自願的。

強暴幻想控（Rape Fantasy）幻想對人實施強暴或被強暴或觀看強暴而激發性喚起。

盜竊癖（Hybristophilia）因偷竊而引起的；也稱為盜竊癖。

搶劫癖（Chremastistophilia）：因被搶劫或搶劫而引起的。

玷污癖（Salirophilia）因他人弄髒或弄髒而引起的覺醒。

骯髒癖（Mysophilia）從骯髒、骯髒或腐朽的事物中喚起的。

粘液癖（Mucophilia）與吞粘液有關的覺醒。

嗜月經癖（Menophilia）月經引起的覺醒。

皮垢癖 (Rameno phelia) 在自己或別人的生殖器上搓皮垢引起的覺醒。

淫語癖（Coprolalia）：被褻瀆而性喚起（猥褻言語即操，賤，婊子）。

電話騷擾癖（Telephone Scatalogia）從淫穢的電話中引起的，尤指對陌生人的視頻通話獲得性滿足；也稱為電話癖。

嗜惡癖（Hybristophilia）：對罪犯的吸引力，尤指對殘忍或令人髮指的罪行的吸引力。

煽動癖（Piquerism）通常襲擊者是用尖銳的物體刺傷或割傷受害者身體。從受害者的反應行為或思想中引起的性興奮

兇殺性興奮（Erotophonophilia）因自己或他人的兇殺思想或行為而引起的。掠奪性興奮只有在自己或他人的性愛是偷來或搶來時才感到性興奮

慕自我暗殺癖（Autassassinophilia）是一種戀物癖形式，指人會由於被殺害的風險而讓自己的性欲被喚起。此種癖好可能會延伸至某些能危害自己性命的物品，例如能令人溺水或窒息的物件。這並不一定表示該人必須實際處於生命安全有危險的情況，而是可借由幻想而達到。

淫樂殺人（erotophonophilia）定義為該術語的對立，也就是“透過殺人來喚起性欲”他將這兩類性欲歸類於犧牲與補償類型。

自淫性窒息（Autoerotic asphyxia）

一般是選擇一個隱蔽地方如浴室、寢室、地下室以避開被人發現，通常應用的是繩索一類東西緊勒頸部或身體別的部位例如外生殖器部分或懸掛的上吊方式以限制呼吸。少數被報導是用塑膠袋、面具、繃帶或吸入有害天然氣等工具或方法。致死案例都是由於不能自我解救時導致窒息死亡的，死亡年齡多在12到17歲，大多數是未婚者。

性窒息自慰（Autoerotic Asphyxiation）：由自慰性窒息引起的，通常到失去意識的程度

窒息癖(Asphyxiophilia)：因窒息或勒死而引起的。

性窒息（Erotic Asphyxiation）：因自己或他人窒息而引起的。

角色扮演癖(roleplay fetishism) 性快感來自於扮演他人。

吸血鬼癖（Vampirism）血液情境引起的性興奮。

嗜好小丑 (Coulrophilia)對小丑的性喚起。

科技癖（Technosexuality）對機器人或裝扮成機器人的人的吸引力。

機械癖（Mechaphilia）對汽車和/或其他大型機器的性吸引力。

戀孕癖（Pregnancy preference）對孕婦想像角色轉換或自己懷孕而引起性喚起

戀服（英語：Clothing fetish）戀鞋戀靴

芭蕾靴（英語：Ballet boot）靴子崇拜（英語：Boot worship）戀襪戀褲襪戀褲

戀女內褲戀內衣戀制服戀尿布戀氨綸戀皮革戀手套（英語：Glove fetishism）戀眼鏡戀橡膠與PVC（英語：Rubber and PVC fetishism）

易裝癖(Transvestic)——通過身著異性服裝來獲得快感。

變裝癖（Transvestism）因變裝而引起的性喚起。

戀易裝者癖（Transvestophilia）對有異性裝扮的人著迷。

易裝癖(Transvestic)——通過身著異性服裝來獲得快感。為了獲得性興奮和打扮成異性而穿著異性服裝。並且一旦達到性高潮便強烈希望脫掉異性服裝。

自體男性化興奮 (Autoandrophilia )女性將自身幻想或實踐成男性的性喚起。

男性戀(Androphilia)一詞來描述僅受男性形象吸引的人群

自體女性化興奮（Autogynephilia）男性將自身幻想或實踐成女性的性喚起

女性戀(Gynephilia)一詞來描述僅受女性形象吸引的人群。

戀跨女癖（Gynemimetophilia）指一個人對跨女（包括術前或術後）有迷戀性興奮.

戀跨男癖（Andromimetophilia）指一個人對跨男（包括術前或術後）有迷戀性興奮

同裝癖（Homeovestism）：異裝癖的反面；因穿自己性別的衣服而引起的。

童裝癖（Pedovestism）：穿得像個孩子而引起的興奮。

嗜性嬰兒病（Paraphilic Infantilism）：對成年嬰兒/尿布愛好者的吸引力（AB/DL）；類似於自身嗜性。

自我嬰兒化興奮（Autonepiophilia）：指喜歡被當做嬰兒對待，其表現為使用嬰兒產品，表演嬰兒行為如吸飲“母乳”，一般不存在性行為，以角色扮演獲取滿足感。

尿布興奮（Diaper fetishism）是戀物癖的一種，喜愛使用尿布/紙尿褲獲取心理和生理的滿足，其行為包括包裹紙尿褲憋尿、自慰以及進行性行為，也包含單純使用紙尿褲而無其他行為。

尿失禁（Urolagnia）指那些極度渴望漏尿或是看到其他人在公共場合漏尿而性喚起。

孌童癖（Hebephilia）對青春期早期兒童的吸引力

戀童癖(Paedophilic)——對兒童產生性欲。以青春期前兒童(一般是12、13歲或更小)做為性對象。對未達到最低合法性交年齡的未成年人有性偏好的行為，而不論未成年人的身體或心理發育情況如何。

戀青少年（英語：Ephebophilia）是指對青春期中期和晚期的青少年（通常是15歲到19歲）有著性偏好的行為。

無性徵興奮Acomoclitism 無毛生殖器引起的性興奮。

老少癖：因有年齡範圍大不相同的伴侶而引起的。

老年癖（Gerontophilia）對老年人的性偏好。

戀年長女人興奮 (Anililagnia) 年輕男人對年長女人著迷。

油門上高跟鞋興奮症(Gas Pedal Honeys) 對穿高跟鞋踩車子油門，女人無助地踩著油門而沮喪和不安懇求車子的發動。幻想看到一個無助的女人然後解救她。就會激發性欲。

巨人癖（Macrophilia）對巨人的吸引力，主要是由巨人控制的女人或男人。

戀醫學癖（英語：Medical fetishism）對涉及醫療或臨床的相關物體、行為、場所或情境產生。這包括在性角色扮演中扮演與醫療相關的人士，例如各科醫師、護理人員、藥劑師和傷病患，或使用特定或一般醫療器材及藥物，例如使用醫師袍、護理人員制服、麻醉、繃帶、頭帶、電療器、尿布、栓劑等物件，進行檢查及侵入性的檢查（例如檢查直腸、尿道或陰道）、插入導管、灌腸、量體溫、注射等。對醫學的幻想是一種色情的類型，不過該幻想並不一定涉及色情。

一段準備進行拍攝的模擬醫療場景

在模擬醫療的遊戲場景中，醫師或護理人員可能會對一名患者進行的可能造成他尷尬或羞赧的模擬醫療行為，例如將冷凍或溫熱的物體接觸患者的身體、或插入患者的身體裡以模擬實際體檢時可能產生的不適感。這種檢查可以包括插入肛門、尿道或陰道，以檢查的名義擺弄乳頭、陰莖、睾丸等。此外也可能使用醫療用的固定帶提升病人的代入感。這種行為也可能是灌腸或管理的前奏，在進行之後、患者可能會被裝上貞操帶或某種令人羞恥的衣服。

戀搔癢（Acarophilia）——只要對某些地區的皮膚作出刺激，如胳肢窩、鎖骨、腳、腹部、肋部、膝蓋和手肘內部，大腿內側等用羽毛、振動器、電流刺激等,甚至不必脫衣或性行為而性喚起。

（pteronphilia）喜歡被皮毛搔癢的人。

knismolagnia“的一個分支——被人搔癢的另一種怪癖表現。看著一個無助的人因被搔癢而扭動著。

導管癖（Catheterophilia）：因思想、行為或觀察導管使用而引起的覺醒。

門把癖雙膝跪地舔門把手而引起的性喚起。

脫套癖（Degloving Fetish）迷戀指遭到碾壓後肢體皮肉分離的圖片而引起的。

爆痘癖（popaholicism）享受給他人擠痘痘或者自己擠痘痘時的那種快感。

嗜樹癖（Dendrophilia）：對樹木的性吸引力。

雕塑興奮(Agalmatophilia) 對人體模特或雕像及延伸到所有描畫的性喚起。

圖片癖（Pictophilia）：由色情圖片或色情藝術引起的性興奮。

宗教崇拜（Hierophilia）：從宗教/神聖物品中喚醒。

墜樓梯癖 (Climacophilia)喜歡從樓梯上失足跌下去的感覺

戀煙癖（英語：Smoking fetishism、Capnolagnia）是一種基於吸煙（包括香煙、雪茄、煙斗、水煙或其它類似的物質）的戀物癖，戀煙癖者在看到或想像一個人吸煙時便會因此喚醒性欲。

碾壓癖（Crush）喜歡壓碎或被壓碎，例如雞蛋、罐頭、塑膠瓶子等等。

氣球迷戀者(balloon fetishests)對氣球，或者充氣的塑膠玩具有著性迷戀。

觸手癖 (Tentacles)對觸手有性喚起

戀水癖（英語：Aquaphilia）是一種戀物癖形式，指人對水中或水下性行為感到特別的偏好，或是想像人在游泳與水下的姿態。

戀液癖（Liquidophilia）控制不住將私處浸泡在液體中而引起的。

雷雨癖（Keraunophilia）由雷雨交加引起的。

嗜冷癖（Psychoro philia）由於接觸極冷的物體和/或看著別人凍僵而引起的覺醒。

燒灼 (Ablutophilia)——妄想症涉及洗澡或淋浴引起的性興奮

嗜熱症（Pyro philia）由火引起的或與燃燒的屍體性交引起的。

流沙癖 (Quicksand) 有人被流沙吞噬的景象而感到性奮

活埋癖（Taphephilia）被活埋引起的興奮。

嗜石癖 (Lithophilia) 對石頭或是碎石就會激發性欲。

雲霧癖 (Nebulophilia)則是看到濃霧就會產生性欲。

山谷幽閉癖（Chasmophilia）進到洞穴或山谷中就會興奮。

動物癖（Zoophilia）由動物的行為或思想引起的。

鳥奸癖（Avisodomy）：與鳥類的性行為。

戀蛛Archnephilia 對蜘蛛著迷。

蟻癖（Formicophilia）只要全身上下爬滿昆蟲或者其它小型生物比如蝸牛、青蛙、蒼蠅、螞蟻、蝸牛在自己的性器官上爬行或輕齧而感到性喚起。

蜜蜂癖（Melissophilia）被蜜蜂包住身材,對嗡嗡聲，甚至會刻意讓蜜蜂叮自己的下體激發性奮

動物虐待癖（Zoosadism）因給動物造成痛苦或看到它們痛苦而引起的。

泰迪熊癖（Ursusagalmatophilia）對有人穿泰迪熊裝或是本人穿上泰迪熊裝的性喚醒。

迷戀毛絨玩具（Plushophilia）對填充玩具產生一種精神依賴，為了確保那所謂的安全感，幾乎從不願將它們放在離身體半米外的地方。

戀皮毛（Furry Fandom）屬於transformation的子分類。主要是迷戀一些變換成人形的動物(呃，類似卡通裡面的造型)，注意他們跟那種戀動物癖又有所不同，例如戀馬人是單純的喜歡馬那樣的動物，簡而言之皮毛控們喜歡一個人穿著卡通動物造型而引起的性喚起。

毛皮癖（Doraphilia）：由皮革、皮膚或毛皮引起的覺醒。

人類傢俱癖（Forniphilia）：因為成為人類傢俱的遊戲而興奮。

戀腋癖（Maschalagnia）對腋窩這個隱私之所感到性喚起。

戀女性肌肉(Sthenolagnia)對女性肌肉力量表現引起的性興奮。

戀腹癖（英語：alvinolagnia或belly fetish）指個人對腰部或腹部或觸摸或摩擦腹部而性喚起。

戀屁症（Flatulence Fetishism）對暗戀的女生新鮮的屁味起到性興奮或稱(Eproctophilia）

餵食癖 (Feederism)不斷餵食他人，直到對方發胖，來獲得快感

嘔吐（Emetophilia）：嘔吐在別人身上、被別人嘔吐 (甚至吃下嘔吐物) 嘔吐引起的性喚起。又稱彩虹遊戲。

嗜糞癖（Coprophilia）由糞便引起的；也稱為糞便癖、糞癖或糞癖

內臟興奮（Splanchn o philia）由內臟腸子引起的。

戀肚臍（英語：Navel fetishism、belly button fetishism或alvinophilia）對肚臍產生性吸引力的戀物癖類型。包括用舌頭舔肚臍或是用防曬乳、乳液等液體塗抹肚臍。舔拭或吸吮傾倒在肚臍周圍的香檳、蜂蜜、巧克力醬、鮮奶油等物品來誘發性欲。同樣地、在水底下用舌頭舔肚臍，用冰塊放置在肚臍上或用冰塊摩擦肚臍都可以產生色情感。包括對肚臍搔癢、舔拭、呼氣、或是用羽毛、花瓣挑逗、對肚臍指交、熱油或蠟油滴在肚臍上、用針刺肚臍或穿肚臍環。

烙印癖（Stigmatophilia）對身體穿孔和恥辱紋身引起的性興奮。

拔陰莖癖（Enderacinism）：從把性器官連根拔出的行為或思想中喚起的。

部分身體戀癖（Partialism）：對特定的、非生殖器官的身體部位的吸引力。

戀頭癖（Craniophile）對頭和頭骨有著深深的偏好。

戀物癖(Fetishistic)——對無生命的物品或者某些非性器官的身體部位從中獲得性快感。

愛物癖(Objectophile)：對物品有著不同尋常的迷戀。

戀身體部位癖(Partilism)：對人體某個特定部位有著極度異常的迷戀。

戀手戀耳垂（英語：Earlobe fetishism）戀眼球（英語：Oculolinctus）戀豐腴（英語：Fat fetishism）

嗅覺過敏（Olfacto philia）由氣味引起的興奮。

毛髮癖（Trichophilia）對頭髮有吸引力。

戀足癖（Podo philia）對腳的吸引力。

戀鞋癖（Retifism）從鞋，腳，腳跟引起的興奮。

舔眼癖（Oculolinctus）舔某人眼球的樂趣。

嗜鼻癖（Nasophilia）對鼻子的吸引力。

戀臀癖（Pygo philia）對臀部的而造成性覺醒

淚癖（Dacryphilia）因看到眼淚或哭泣而引起的。

母乳癖 (Lactophilia) 對母乳或直接吸出乳汁或觀看會使他們感到興奮

媽咪癖（Mammaphilia）由乳房引起的；也被稱為嗜乳症和乳突。

全身包裹癖（英語：Total enclosure fetishism）全身被包裹而引起性喚起

戀屍癖（Necrophilia）對屍體的吸引力

咬人癖（Odaxelagnia）：因咬或被咬而激發的性喚起。

食人癖（Vorarephilia）又叫“食用性興奮。從吞食他人或被吞食他人的想法或行為引起的性興奮。

口吃癖 (Psellismophilia) 對講話口吃覺得很性感.

音樂癖(Melolagnia)：一種被音樂喚醒性欲的狀態。

視睡癖（Somnophilia）看別人睡覺而引起的覺醒。

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這些性癖全都有了胸部陰道陰莖陰囊腹肌讓您全部同時擁有

男性恐懼症

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厭男症

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性早熟症

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過度手淫會使大腦的乙醯膽鹼，多巴胺和複合胺神經系統被燃燒殆盡，導致大腦自主神經功能調整到勃起無力和早洩的狀態，這就是所謂過度手淫的後遺症

夾腿綜合征

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犯賤心理學

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性冷淡

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性別焦慮症（Gender Dysphoria），又譯性別不安或性別煩躁，舊稱性別認同障礙（Gender Identity Disorder）、性別認同困惑、易性症、易性病或易性癖（即異性癖）。這一名詞是用來界定那些由於自我認知或者表達的性別與生理性別不一致而產生的焦慮或苦惱。

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露陰癖（exhibitionism）

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窺陰症

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性派對

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暴露癖

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交換配偶

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受虐癖：

在性高潮階段若沒有緊張就不可能產生快感。男性用繩索套著頭頸才能獲得性相關的快感，那是因為他懷疑自己的性欲能力，處於自嫌、軟弱狀態下迫不得已採用外力實現自己的興奮。

通過受苦的方式從而激起個體反復的強烈的喚起，重複21天以上，形成習慣；重複90天以上，就會形成穩定習慣；如果重複365天以上，想改變都很困難。表現為性幻想、性衝動或性行為。

性成癮症

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戀物症（ fetishism）

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易裝癖 (transvestic fetishism）

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八種異常性行為

美國精神病協會(The American Psychiatric Association)的心理障礙診斷統計手冊(Diagnositc and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)列出了八種異常性行為：

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1、愛麗絲夢遊仙境綜合症(Todd綜合症，Alice in Wonderland Syndrome or Todd Syndrome)

愛麗絲夢遊仙境綜合症(AIWS)的特症為：患者對體像、空間和/或時間的感覺發生了扭曲，可能出現視物過小、視物過大或其他感覺變化，也包括對速度感知的扭曲。AIWS是一種知覺改變，而非眼睛自身功能的問題。

AIWS最突出且糾結的症狀為體像的改變，患者可能因為自己整個身體或其中某個部分尺寸及形狀的扭曲而感到困惑。這些症狀頗為嚇人，可導致恐懼情緒甚至驚恐發作。這種扭曲可能在一天內重複出現若干次，持續一段時間後方可消退。

2、Fregoli綜合症(Fregoli Syndrome)

Fregoli綜合症的名稱來自義大利演員Leopoldo Fregoli，此君以其在舞臺上快速改變外貌的能力而聞名。該綜合症同樣涉及身份識別錯誤，為Capgras綜合症的反向形式。

其特症為：患者堅定不移地認為，加害者或熟悉的人可偽裝成陌生人，眼前不同的人其實都是一個人通過改變外貌或偽裝而假扮的。

3、Cotard綜合症(Cotard Delusion)

Cotard綜合症的核心症狀為虛無妄想，由法國神經科醫生Jules Cotard于1880年首次描述，他將這一臨床狀況稱為“le délire de négation”，即“否定譫妄”(negation delirium)。

患者堅信自己已經死去，並不存在，已經腐敗，或失去了自己的血液或內臟。

4、二重性記憶錯誤(Reduplicative Paramnesia)

二重性記憶錯誤的特症為：患者堅信一個地點或場所被複製了，同時存在兩處，或者被“重定向”至其他地方。

其特點與Capgras綜合症類似，區別在於前者針對的是地點，而後者針對的是人。

“Reduplicative paramnesia”這一術語最先由神經科醫生Arnold Pick于1903年提出，他在一例疑似阿爾茨海默病患者身上發現了這一現象。

5、異手綜合症(Alien hand syndrome，AHS)

異手綜合症的特症為：患者堅信自己的手並不屬於他/她，而是具有自己的生命。

患者的感覺功能並無異常，也承認受累手仍是自己身體的一部分，但卻認為其行動卻是自主的，“擁有自己的意志”。

6、Capgras綜合症(Capgras Syndrome)

Capgras綜合症的名稱來自法國精神科醫生Capgras，正是他提出了這一涉及身份識別錯誤的妄想。

其特症為：患者堅定不移地認為自己的熟人，通常是配偶或其他親密的家庭成員，被相貌一模一樣的人所冒充，有時冒充者甚至不止一人。

7、耶路撒冷綜合症(Jerusalem Syndrome)

耶路撒冷綜合症指由於訪問耶路撒冷城而觸發的一種特殊的精神現象，包括宗教主題相關的強迫觀念、妄想或其他精神病樣體驗，且並不局限於某一種宗教或教派。

這一綜合症常見於具有精神障礙病史或在訪問耶路撒冷城之前狀況不太好的個體。其精神病性症狀多為一過性，在離開該地區後幾周內傾向於消散。

8、巴黎綜合症(Paris Syndrome)

巴黎綜合症是一種相當不同尋常的臨床狀況。該綜合症多發生於日本人，他們曾於巴黎或法國、西班牙的其他地方遊覽，隨後出現了精神崩潰的症狀。

該病主要表現為嚴重的文化休克(culture shock)，其形式各異，既有軀體症狀，也包括焦慮、現實解體、人格解體、急性妄想狀態、被害觀念及幻覺等精神症狀。

9、分離性遺忘(Dissociative Amnesia)及分離性漫遊(Dissociative Fugue)

分離性遺忘指患者無法回憶自身資訊，尤其是在特定的通常是創傷性的事件之中。

該現象的確與無法回憶自己的身份相關，其特症為出人意料的旅行及“充滿困惑的漫遊”。

10、外國口音綜合症(Foreign Accent Syndrome)

外國口音綜合症很少見。此病導致患者在說母語時如同帶有外國口音。

這一綜合症常發生於累及語言中樞的頭部外傷、創傷或卒中之後。

11、斯德哥爾摩綜合症(Stockholm Syndrome)

斯德哥爾摩綜合症的名稱來自1973年發生於斯德哥爾摩的一場銀行搶劫案，該案件的受害者對劫匪產生了情感上的依附，甚至在劫持者獲釋後為其辯護，並拒絕指證他們。

該綜合症的特症為：受害者對加害者表現出同情、忠誠甚至自願的順從，而將自身的安危置之度外。這一狀況最常出現於人質挾持事件中，也可見于強姦、配偶或子女暴力等個案。目前的理解為，該綜合症為一種發生于巨大生理及情感應激下的嚴重心理反應。

斯德哥爾摩綜合症的一個著名案例為Patty Hearst，她是一位百萬富翁的女兒，1974年被綁架，隨後與綁架她的人共同組織了一起搶劫案。

12、利馬綜合症(Lima syndrome)

利馬綜合症是反向的斯德哥爾摩綜合症：劫持人質者或加害者逐漸同情人質或受害者的意願及需要，兩方的立場趨於一致。

該名稱來源於1996年發生於秘魯首都利馬的日本大使館挾持案：在日本駐秘魯大使官邸所舉辦的一次宴會中，圖派克•阿馬魯革命運動組織的14名成員挾持了數百名外交官、政府工作人員、軍官及許多國家的商界人士，並將其扣押為人質。

奇怪的是，人質事件數天后，軍事人員釋放了大部分人質，似乎對這些人的重要性置若罔聞。要知道，這些人中包括未來的秘魯總統及現任總統的母親。在長達數月的失敗談判後，秘魯敢死隊通過軍事行動解救了其他人質，但有一名人質已遇害。

13、司湯達綜合症(Stendhal Syndrome)

司湯達綜合症的特症為：在接觸到藝術品時，個體表現出顯著的軀體及情感性焦慮，甚至可能嚴重到出現驚恐發作、解離症狀、意識混亂及幻覺。該綜合症常出現於個體接觸到特別美麗的藝術品，或在單個場所內暴露于大量藝術作品時。這一概念同時可引申至自然世界：當個體面對大自然的壯美時也可能出現類似反應。

14、第歐根尼綜合症(Diogenes Syndrome)

第歐根尼綜合症的特症為極端的自我忽略、社會退縮、缺乏羞恥感、冷漠及強迫性地囤積垃圾。該綜合症主要出現於老年人，並與進展性癡呆相關。

15、孟喬森綜合症/做作性障礙(Munchausen Syndrome/Factitious Disorder)

孟喬森綜合症的名稱來自Baron von Munchausen，此人為18世紀的德國軍官，以粉飾其生活及經歷著稱。做作性障礙指患者在沒有明顯動機的情況下偽裝軀體心理體症或症狀。

做作性障礙患者常使用嚴重的方式故意製造或誇大症狀。他們可能就這些虛假症狀說謊，自傷及設法改變診斷性檢查的結果。

該綜合症可能的警示信號包括：嚴重但不連續的病史;造訪大量醫院以尋求醫療幫助;具有針對醫院及醫學術語的廣博知識;急切地希望獲得醫療干預;陰性檢查結果後出現新的症狀;只有在獨處或未被觀察時才有症狀;涉及身份及自尊的問題。患者在幼年常有被虐待或忽略史，人格障礙也常見於做作性障礙患者中。

16、代理孟喬森綜合症/代理做作性障礙(MunchausenSyndrome by Proxy/Factitious Disorder by Proxy)

代理孟喬森綜合症中，患者身邊的人(通常是幼兒)可能表現出各種軀體或精神疾病的症狀，但他們本身並沒有真病。患者同樣可能就這些症狀說謊，設法改變檢查結果，偽造醫療記錄，甚至通過各種手段製造症狀，包括投毒、窒息、饑餓及引發感染。

代理做作性障礙患者常常是父母，包括成年子女的年邁父母，也可能是醫務工作者，同時可能共病做作性障礙。這種偽裝行為並無包括經濟獲益在內的顯著動機，而他人的同情或注意似乎更加重要。

17、慕殘綜合症(Apotemnophilia and Acrotomophilia)

慕殘綜合症是一種相當詭異的狀況。Apotemnophilia又被稱為軀體完整性身份障礙或被截肢者身份障礙，這類個體十分渴望截除身體某個健康的部分。在極端案例中，個體真的截除了自己的肢體，或要求他人代勞。

鑒於幾乎沒有外科醫生願意對健康肢體行截肢手術，患者常常自行操作，對肢體造成不可逆的損害，以至於需要正式的外科手術以收拾殘局。有報告稱，截肢後大部分患者對自己的決定感到高興。

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你是性變態嗎？｜ 50%的人都對異常性行為有興趣

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英文介紹版本

As a species, our sexual tastes are as varied as our fingerprints. Below is a list of every sexual fetish we can think of. Some, like the widely parodied foot fetish, are more commonplace, while others, like vorarephilia, are less well understood. (Please keep in mind that a “paraphilia” is a condition involving an atypical sexual desire that can sometimes include activities considered dangerous or extreme.)

1. Vorarephilia

Vorarephilia is an abnormal sexual condition characterized by the tendency to become aroused by the idea of eating someone, the idea of being eaten by someone, or by witnessing a cannibalistic scene. People with this particular paraphilia are commonly referred to as vores.

2. Hybristophilia

Hybristophilia is an abnormal sexual condition in which sexual desire and climax occur in response to the knowledge that one’s partner has committed a heinous act such as infidelity, lying, or criminal acts such as rape, murder, or robbery.

3. Diaper Bondage

Diaper bondage is a specific form of submission that involves role-play in which an adult regresses to an infant-like state. Often, the adult performing this sexual fetish will wear a diaper and act like a baby, seeking nurturing from their sexual partner. This condition is also known as paraphilic infantilism,autonepiophilia, psychosexual infantilism or, more commonly, adult baby syndrome.

4. Sleeping Sex

Sexsomnia is a rare sleep disorder that prompts an individual to seek sexual activity in their sleep. Although most reported cases involve men, both males and females may initiate sleep sex.

5. Cuckolding / Cuckoldry

Cuckolding or cuckoldry is a sexual fetish in which someone experiences sexual arousal by way of observing their partner having sex with a another man or woman. Some report an associated feeling of humiliation and /or rejection as part of the allure.

6. Omorashi

Omarashi, or “omo” for short, falls within the urolagnia family of sexual fetishes, which are related to urine. Those who identify as omo become aroused when they have a full bladder and wet themselves, or observe their partner wetting themselves. Other phrases used to describe this particular fetish are “bladder desperation” and “panty wetting.” The word omarashi is Japanese for “to wet oneself.”

7. Spanking Art

Spanking art is generally enjoyed by people who identify as spanking enthusiasts in the bedroom. Spankophilia is a paraphilia characterized by arousal from spanking or being spanked. It falls within the realm of of BDSM (bondage, discipline, submission, sadomasochism) behaviors, although it’s a sexula fetish in and of itself.

8. Somnophilia

Somnophilia is erotic arousal dependent upon the act of intruding on a stranger mid-sleep, or waking someone up with erotic caresses.

9. My Little Pony Sex

The adult male fans of ‘My Little Pony’ are colloquially known as “bronies.” While not all bronies associate this cartoon program created for children with sex, there is a niche community of people who fetishize ‘My Little Pony’ and watch porn related to these series and / or roleplay scenes based on the show.

10. Teratophilia

Teratophilia is a sexual fetish that involves being attracted to people with physical deformities. There are many subsets of teratophilia specific to different types of human deformities. For instance, acrotomophilia involves sexual attraction to amputees and stigmatophilia refers to deriving sexual pleasure from people whose bodies are marked or scarred in some way.

11. Coprophilia / Scatophilia

Coprophiila / Scatophilia (otherwise known as “scat sex) is a sexual fetish rooted in a fixation with feces and defecation. People who gravitate towards poop play experience sexual pleasure through the act of crapping on another person or being crapped on, for instance.

12. Dendrophilia / Arbophilia

People with this particular paraphilia are sexually attracted to trees. The term dendrophilia literally means “love of trees.” While some are turned on by the combination of textures (the roughness of tree bark in contrast to the softness of tree leaves), others simply find trees to be phallic symbols that arouse them.

13. Breath Play

Breath play involves the restriction of oxygen to the brain to achieve a heightened orgasm. Self-induced breath play during masturbation is known as autoerotic asphyxiation. Breath play within a couple can be achieved by nose pinching, holding your breath, cover the face with a hood or plastic bag, “corseting” (pushing down on someone’s chest), choking, hanging, or “kinging” / “queening” (smothering your partner with your genitals). Any time you restrict someone’s ability to breathe, you’re engaging in a risky behavior, so breath play falls within the realm of BDSM behaviors known as “edge play,” in which your partners is very much responsible for your life.

14. Daddy Kink (Daddy Dom)

Daddy kink is a relatively simple sexual fetish that involves submission / domination play during which the submissive refers to her dominant partner as “daddy.”

15. Pee Fetish

You’ve likely heard of a “golden shower” (the act of peeing on someone for the purpose of sexual pleasure)) and the people who like giving or receiving golden showers are characterized as having a pee fetish. The clinical term for this paraphilia is “urolagnia.”

16. Cum Fetish

People who identify as having a cum fetish are aroused by the act of cumming on their partner, being cummed on, and / or images of people who have been cummon-on. Something about the sticky mess of ejaculate on someone’s face, stomach, chest, or ass is tantalizing to those with a cum fetish.

17. Mechanophilia

Mechanophilia is characterized by sexual attraction to machines, sometimes a desire to engage in sexual relations with (or in) an airplane, car, bicycle, or helicopter.

18. Macrophilia / Giantess Sex

Macrophilia or giantess sex is an abnormal sexual condition that involves being attracted to and aroused by someone who is much larger than you are physically. In short, it’s a phenomenon in which people are turned on by giants and fantasies involving giants.

19. Pedal Pumping / Revving

Pedal pumping or “revving” is a subset of foot fetishism that involves watching someone, often a woman wearing high heels, push a gas pedal with masturbatory rhythm.

20. Balloon Fetish / Looners

People with a balloon fetish (aka “looners”) find balloons sexually attractive and incorporate them into their sex lives. While some find creative ways to have sex with balloons, others simply enjoy the sight of their partner sitting on a balloon and popping it.

21. Quorofilia / Hand Fetish

Some people who experience a hand fetish or quorofilia are attracted to a specific part of the hand, such as the fingers (which might appear phallic), the nails, or the palm. Others are aroused by actions performed with the hand, whether overtly sexual (e.g. masturbation) or traditionally asexual (e.g. handwashing or rinsing dishes).

22. Sensation Play

While many forms of erotic play are fundamentally cerebral and centered on power exchanges (think domination / submission), sensation play is eroticism that is physical first. In sensation play, the physical stimuli (e.g. silk scarves, ice, candle wax, massage oils, feathers) are applied in a controlled manner with the purpose of eliciting the release of pleasure triggering endorphins. While their may be pain involved, the effect is similar to that of a “runner’s high.”

23. Extreme Feeding / Feederism

Feeders or “encouragers” take pleasure in funneling excessive quantities of food into the mouths of “gainers.” Some extreme feeders enjoy the sensation of inserting their penis between a gainer’s fat folds.

Sexual Fetishes

These sexual fetishes are yet more specific (think attraction to people with neck braces or arousal from vomit) and more obscure. But they are also very real. What can we say? The world is a fascinating place, especially when it comes to human sexual behavior.

Pygophilia — Attraction to the human butt.

Hematolagnia — Also known as “vampire syndrome,” hematolagnia is sexual interest in blood or the desire to drink blood sensually.

Salirophilia — The love of getting dirty (or getting your partner dirty), literally, prior to or during sexual intercourse.

Katoptronophilia — Intense sexual satisfaction derived from mirrors, often satisfied by having sex, stripping, or masturbating in front mirrors.

Food Fetish — While some foods are actually aphrodisiacs because they have properties that induce sexual desire, sexual food play can involve any food that a person finds sexually stimulating. Food play is a form of sitophilia, which refers to arousal by erotic scenes centering food.

Teleiophilia — Sexual attraction to adults.

Microphilia — Sexual attraction to small people or tiny things.

Claustrophilia — People who are turned on by and / or prefer to have sex in tiny spaces.

Agalmatophilia — A love of mannequins and/or statues.

Hotdogging — Rubbing your penis between another person’s butt cheeks. (This is not about anal penetration, though it can lead there.)

Tricophilia — Arousal from hair.

Retifism — Arousal from shoes.

Abasiophilia — Attraction to people with leg braces.

Spectrophilia — Attraction to ghosts.

Trichophilia — Arousal from hair.

Abasiophilia — Love of people with neck braces.

Phalloorchoalgolagnia — Arousal from pain to male genitalia.

Plushophilia — Attraction to stuffed animals or people in animal costume.

Aquaphilia — Arousal from water.

Necrozoophilia — Attraction to dead animals.

Apotemnophilia — Arousal from amputation.

Emetophilia — Attraction to vomit.

Frotteurism — Arousal from rubbing against non-consenting people.

Eproctophilia — Attraction to farts.

Maisesiophilia — Attraction to pregnant women.

Homeovestism — Attraction to the clothing of one’s own gender.

Dacryphilia – Attraction to making someone cry.

Nasophilia —Attraction to noses.

Arachnophilia —Attraction to spiders, spider-lover.

32 People On Reddit Reveal Their Weirdest Sexual Fetishes

We all have our turn-ons and turn-offs. But these people have some very specific sexual fetishes that fall outside the realm of what you might consider “normal.” Read these accounts of what it’s like to experience sexual arousal from something like a silky soft sweater or human piss.

1. Soft sweaters — duh.

“Weird sexual fetishes, eh?

Well, if by “weird” you mean “rare,” I bet nobody here shares this one: I love women who wear soft sweaters (angora, mohair, etc.). I don’t know what it is, but if a sexy woman is wearing a soft sweater, I’m immediately and irretrievably infatuated.”

2. Thank you, Nickelodeon!

“Can’t believe I’m going to post this, but it’s no weirder than most in this thread.

I’m bisexual and into BDSM, but the thing I consider weirdest is that I’m a wet and messy fetishist.

I like to see girls slimed, covered in mud, pied in the face, or just generally messy. Growing up with Nickelodeon was a strange and interesting experience…”

3. He takes Sleeping Beauty to a whole new level.

“I’ve got a thing for sleeping girls. Yes, it’s weird, but I never acted on it until my current girlfriend.

She’s into it, though, and sometimes as a special treat, she’ll get super wasted and pass out, or take heavy duty sleeping pills and tell me to fuck her while she’s out cold.”

4. Well this is definitely a first.

“I like to watch videos where doctors and paramedics try to resuscitate fat men who are having heart attacks.”

5. …And another first.

“Australian redheads.”

6. A certain ilk of public nudity.

“Not so weird, but I am absolutely enthralled with public nudity, whether it is in a crowded public area or secluded mountain trail, and whether it is nonsexual or public humiliation/bondage. On that note, girls that flash poorly (pull shirt down, turn around for the camera, then pull shirt back up) or completely spreading themselves is an instant turn off.”

7. This guy is straight, but he fantasizes about being a woman.

“Am I the only throwaway account on here that likes the idea of transforming into a woman (I’m a man) and having wild sex? It started out as a fetish for purely lesbian sex, evolved into a fetish involving myself taking part in lesbian sex (obviously as a woman), and these days it can involve myself as a woman having sex with guys and even pregnancy as well (one of my more normal fetishes is pregnant women and insemination in general, so of course it factors in here).

Strange thing is that I’m not gay, or even feminine. The idea of having sex with a man as a man is completely unappealing to me and so is getting a sex change — there’s nothing appealing to me about artificial women (often too ugly, don’t actually function sexually as women etc). It’s all about being a fully functional woman, or more recently a ‘female’ hermaphrodite.

I believe the term for my fetish is autogynephilia. It’s really my only active fetish these days, the rest are offshoots.

Also, I should note another strange thing: I have a perfectly healthy sex life with my fiancée. I rarely fantasize about being a woman unless I’m masturbating alone.”

8. A stand-up guy.

“I get turned on by women with MBAs.”

9. I’d venture to say this isn’t a fetish.

“I like my women built, son. It’s so frustrating when my friends and I are scoping out a chick and no one else notices the ass. But not just the ass– the angle it makes with the small of the back. And the rate at which the small of the back arcs into the back.

Also, if you bang on her ass like a bongo, there needs to be a decent sound. That’s how you know it’s ripe, like a watermelon. Her hip bones should make a good woodblock, and her thighs should just have just the right amount of tension to get that kwwww sound.”

10. Using a strap-on.

“Pegging. Not femdom though, that doesn’t do anything for me. Occasionally I get that itch and would like to have it scratched by my girlfriend.

It’s tiring always having to be the top.”

11. Riiiiiiight.

“Well defined collar bone and tendon on inner thigh = heaven.”

12. Basically, this guy is probably into the “Twilight” series.

“Expansion fetish here: basically it means I like girls who are going through some kind of transformation process. Originally started out with girls turning into animals and anthro animals, got sick of the animal part, and now I’m more into chicks whose boobs are growing or if their bodies are changing or growing in general… Never told a partner this, seems too hard to work into a sex conversation.”

13. You can have a lifetime of bad hair days with this guy.

“Bald women…I adore them. Luckily I have developed enough game over the years that every woman I have dated longer than a few weeks has shaved her head. Honestly most women seem to think about it at some point and I think when they find out they have steady sex until they can grow it back out they go for it. It can go badly though so be warned.”

14. Weight fetish.

“Weight gain. Yeah, I know — this one is really weird. The most common time this comes up is if someone grumbles that they gained some weight, or they’re stuffed, or their pants don’t fit.

Sometimes I watch shows like The Biggest Loser and get really aroused looking at the before and after (imagining them reversed, of course), or thinking about the people who were kicked off the show and will gain it all back. The most unrealistic fantasy is my s/o somehow getting fatter and fatter as I have sex with them.

Phew. Nice to get that off my chest.”

15. So he’s a self-hating Jew…

“As a Jew, one of my biggest fantasies has always been to sleep with a German girl. And I want her to yell at me in German the whole time, like only an angry kraut could. And I want to give her the hate-fucking of a lifetime, something that would make Golda Meir proud.”

16. Cuckolding fantasy.

“I want to watch my girlfriend fucked by another man. Just thinking about it turns me on. It would make me view her in a 100% sex-object-like way, like watching a pornstar get fucked.

It would also make me jealous, but not in a bad way. More like a “Oh yeah? Now let me show you how its really done” kind of way.

I thought I could never tell her this, but we recently had a big night out a club and wound up taking some E’s. In a fit of ecstasy-fueled honesty, I admitted my fantasy to her and she got super excited by the idea. She even wants to do the reverse and watch me fuck another woman.

I know all this probably sounds really messed up. Obviously this is a throwaway account.”

17. True…

“I’m male and enjoy fully dressing up as a female rubber doll with big torpedo tits, latex mask and ballet boots.”

18. Leap years really GET HIM GOING.

“I can only have sex on a leap year. It’s not my decision.”

19. Tickle-me-Elmo.

“Tickling. Either doing the tickling or watching it.”

20. I think the real question is: Who WOULDN’T like this?

I like men to give me a pedicure while I whip them. It’s a hard life.

21. Finally, a man who appreciates hair!

“I’m way more into a girl’s hair than I can explain. Length, color, style…girls who change it up frequently, or do something a little unusual, will always get 10x the attention from me.”

22. Urine!

“I have a bizarre fascination with piss. Sometimes I feel great about embracing it and sometimes it’s the most embarrassing thing ever.”

23. Armpits!

“I don’t really obsess over them or have some collection of armpit porn or anything but they turn me on.

I love my girlfriends armpits, the way they smell, they way they look, shaved, unshaved, stubbly, whatever. I’ve came on her armpits before and fucked them with lube.”

24. Yeah, again, does not sound like a fetish to me.

“Satin. I can’t even walk past a satin garment without being compelled to touch it.”

25. An uninterested partner.

“Fucking from behind, but she’s completely disinterested. Like she’s doing paperwork or something.”

26. A nice, sexy, old pair of sneaks.

“Sneakers. I’m really not a fan of shoes that are traditionally considered “sexy.” I don’t like heels, or really anything open-toed. I like some boots, but again, not a fan of heels. I really love a girl in a pair of sneakers. Less jewelry (if any), less makeup (though most people subscribe to the “less is more” school of thought in terms of makeup), no nail polish, less “sexy” clothes, and sneakers. That is what I love a girl to look like.”

27. This sounds kind of nice, actually.

“I’m an adult baby. I’m into being diapered, dominated, and babied by someone. I’ve got tons of paraphernalia including bottles, an adult sized pacifier, tons of diapering supplies and diapers, stuffed animals, and onesies and other baby clothes. My boyfriend even has an adult sized nursery at his house for me. So I think I win this thread.”

28. A TAD unsettling…

“Cold limbs. That’s really the only one. I’m happy to stall the actual sex for a long, long time if I can just caress her freezing cold arms and legs and run my lips over them.”

29. Something about this feels wrong.

“I have posted about this before, but guys with Asperger’s syndrome turn me on incredibly. There is something so sweetly gentle and innocent about them that just makes me want to… DEFILE them.”

30. You have to at least give him credit for being so in touch with his fantasies.

“Hoo boy. I am one screwed up individual :P

I’m into furry stuff. I’m bisexual when it comes to furry porn, but not with actual people (totally straight in real life).

I’m also a voraphile: this means I enjoy fantasizing about people (and animals, furries, etc.) swallowing me, and me swallowing them (occasionally). It’s mostly the “being in the throat” that turns me on. Also, large bellies (mostly from someone being in the stomach); this is probably an extension of the vore fetish and is sort of a pseudo-pregnancy-fetish.

I did an AMA about this a while back. Maybe I should do another one since this one was so long ago.

Oh, and I’m a zoophile too. Never actually done that, though, and probably will keep it confined to my fantasies.”

31. He’s a feeder!

“Feeder fetish. Not to the extent of the movie feed or anything like that, I just really like fat girls and I like to watch girls indulge in food. I always encourage girls, even those that I have no interest in, to eat. If I’m at a restaurant or cafeteria with a girl and they are trying to decide between two things I’ll suggest both. Or if they’re contemplating dessert I’ll tell them to go for it.”

32. At least he can admit it.

“I was going to post under a different account but what the hell. I love girls with big eyes. I like to take my dick and poke them in the eyes, although I do it gently. I know it might be frowned upon but I can’t help it.”

40 People On Reddit Describe Sexual Fetishes That Disgust Them (NSFW)

While some people harbor secret sexual desires, others secretly detest certain erotic behaviors. Read these honest accounts of people who just can’t stand certain sex stuff.

1. Anything anal.

“Anal sex.

I don’t really understand the appeal of that hole. Poop comes from there, poop likely may still be there. I don’t want poop on my dick.

Plus, there’s a perfectly good hole right next to it that’s literally made for me to have sex in. Maybe someone can explain to me why I want this?”

2. Bug-chasing

“Nothing compares.”

3. Feet

“Feet. 100000% times over, feet. I don’t get why people would want to lick and suck on something that sometimes can smell so bad?! I am guessing it tastes JUST as bad sometimes too. They have fungus on them if people don’t wash them properly and gah!”

4. Vomit

“Vomit. Just…no thank you.”

5. Pain (because it hurts)

“Pain—I don’t like it because it fucking hurts.”

6. Furries

“Furries. I don’t want to fuck anybody through two layers of carpet.”

7. Ball-stomping

“Ball-stomping.”

8. Puppy-stomping

“Fapping to prepubescent Asian girls who are stomping little puppies until their internal organs come out of their mouths, and assorted other delightful things involving animal and child cruelty.”

9. Urethral insertion

“Shoving stuff up your dick, like toothpicks, and rope just to get off… I mean… wtf”

10. Genital mutilation

“Genital mutilation. Like seriously you need those parts to have fun with, why would you angrily attack them?”

11. Cuckolding

“Cuckolding, and that whole wife-sharing business.”

12. Fake boobs

“Fake breasts. I can’t even watch a porn if the chicken has a pair of bolt-ons.”

13. Very, very specific fetishes involving young women with Jeeps stuck in mud during the rain

“I know someone that has a thing for young (like 20s) women driving older (pre-2000) Jeeps that are stuck in the mud, while they’re wearing red stiletto heels and a tight dress. When it’s raining.

It’s very, very specific…”

14. Feeders

“Feeders. I don’t understand how being a feeder or feedee (not sure how to spell it) could possibly sexually excite you. I’ll also never understand why someone would purposely try to gain weight (of course unless they need to for medical reasons). I am fat, and it’s not fun. Nice clothing’s harder to find, it’s more expensive, and it’s not healthy! It’s also very hard to lose the weight again. I honestly will never understand it and actually find it disgusting.”

15. Genital pumping

“Genital pumping. Like when guys put their dicks in tubes and pump it up or some shit to make it grow super huge. Saw a thing where some dude put his dong in some sort of mini pressure chamber and it grew to the size of his forearm. Doesn’t it hurt?”

16. Crushing

“Crushing and crush fetishes. Specifically the act of crushing small animals like kittens and rodents, and insects. It’s repulsive and everything I hate about the world all summed up into someone’s gross pleasure. I’ve seen softer versions of it like smashing up fruit or things like grapes but what the fuck is that? How can you get off to something like an innocent creature getting smashed away? And no you don’t need to explain, you’re gross.”

17. Scat

“I’m very open sexually and am willing to try anything, my only hold up is scat play, it’s shit, it completely filthy. I can’t understand why someone squatting over you and letting out a steaming pile on your chest is sexy.”

18. Sex with trees

“Dendrophilia! Having sex with trees… wat??? O___o

And I remember an article about a

man getting arrested for having sex with his bicycle.”

19. Vore

“Vorarephilia, aka Vore.

The fetish of being eaten and digested. Some people dig cannibalism, but I first learned about it in the context of people being turned on by the idea of being eaten by a large predatory animal.

Being eaten by an anaconda, or a crocodile, a pack of zombies. Right now, as you read this, someone, somewhere, is getting off to this stuff.”

20. The old Roman centurion cracking eggs on his helmet trick

“I heard about some chap that could only get it up for his wife if he hired a bloke to dress as a Roman centurion, stand in a corner of the room, and repeatedly crack eggs on his helmet during the romance session.”

21. Chicken-choking

“I don’t know what it’s called, but some men insert their dick into a chicken and break its neck to induce a seizure and get off to that.

I’ll never understand.”

22. Pregnant women

“A fetish for pregnant women, I mean I get that there are extra curves there, but a baby is in there, you can’t just ignore that.”

23. Pluckin’ pubes

“Plucking pubic hairs.

I just don’t understand.”

24. Rimming

“Rim jobs. Nope, no way am I partaking in that.”

25.Rosebudding

“Rosebudding.”

26. Nullos

“Nullos. It’s fucking disturbing.”

28. Coprophagia or urophagia

“Coprophagia or urophagia. I just don’t understand how things like that can be consumed and people can manage to stay aroused and not get violently ill.”

29. Anal insufflation of illicit substances

“A friend of mine is snorting cocaine out of his GF’s butt. Yap.”

30. Small dick humiliation

“Small dick humiliation.”

31. That mom-and-son thing

“That mom-and-son thing. It’s just so wrong.”

32. Childbirth

“Childbirth. Sure, it’s nice in a natural way, New life and all that.

But what the Fuck is wrong with people who have this fetish? It’s gross as Fuck most of the time.”

33. Eyeball-licking

“Eyeball-licking.”

34. The sound of car antennas

“The Danish Fetish Society’s spokesman was asked about the weirdest fetish he knew.

Told about a guy who got off the sound of old car antennas being retracted. The guy had a whole room filled with nothing but antennas and would walk around the parking lot to find certain brands that he loved the most.”

35. Shooting up urine

“Injecting piss with syringes.”

36. Swollen pussies and anal prolapses

“Swollen pussy/anal prolapse. Ew, that’s just disgusting.”

37. Ass-eating

“The eating of buttholes.”

38. Traps

“Traps, I don’t understand the want for a woman with a large dick.”

39. Pegging

“Pegging.

There’s some kind of link missing where I don’t understand how someone can go “Oh I let my wife fuck me in the ass with a dildo.” And then not consider themselves at least a little homosexual, or in some cases be very homophobic.”

40. Everything

“Pretty much everything in this thread.”

27 People On Reddit Share Their Partner’s Kinkiest Fetish And Whether They Were Down With It Or Not

Even if you’re vanilla AF when it comes to sex, your significant other’s tastes might be a bit more adventurous. Do you meet their every carnal need, or would doing so weird you out? Read these accounts from people whose partners expressed a very specific kinky fetish.

1. Hostile make out

“I had a SO who liked to heavily (heavily) make out during foreplay. It was aggressive and kind of strange. Kind of turned into wtf when she licked the roof of my mouth.

That is a sensation I’ll never forget.”

2. I’m ignoring you, but actually getting v. horny

“My wife has a fetish (I think) for some on initiating sex with her while she’s trying to ignore them.

It’s kinda weird, she’s reading a book, but you take her pants off and she’s ready to go, but she’ll just sit there and keep on reading for as long as she can before finally giving in.

She told me once post-coitus that she was to distracted and ended up reading the same sentence 7 times before giving up.

It’s had a bit of a weird effect, in that whenever i’m horny, i’ll just go start messing with her and see if she’s into, it. Sex when you want, but initiating like that still feels a bit awkward.”

3. Touching is overrated, smell is where it’s at!

“She was turned on by my smell. When I picked her up at the train station she would always bearhug me and inhale my scent while her eyes rolled back from pleasure.

She also had a piece of cloth under her pillow that she regularly sniffed, that cloth was dirty as fuck and wasn’t washed in about 20 years. It was originally white but it was now a very dirty gray. Never touched that cloth, so gross.”

4. Fetishes mailed via UPS

“I had a long distance relationship with my ex, which was understandably difficult at times.

For my birthday, he sent me a card and told me “not to open it around other people.” I thought, how adorable, he’s shy about what he wrote in it!

Nope. That fucker put his toenail clippings and pubes in it. Then went and told me it would be “hot” if I were to put them inside of me. I laughed and said there was no way I was going to eat them.

It was a more innocent time for me.”

5. Vampire sex

“She liked it pretty rough and she liked to be bitten. I tried and I learned that I like rough sex too as well as biting”

6. Can we get ice with that?

“Once banged a Hawaiian chick who liked me to put ice cubes in her pussy while I ate her out.”

7. Chest friction = huge orgasm?

“This is strange just because it was different. I think it’s kind of cute in a way.

She just always wanted our chests touching in bed, always wanted her hand up my shirt rubbing my chest hair. She’d start masturbating while doing it.

I could go down on her, wear a vibrating cock ring, fuck her hard, and do a million fantasies but she always came the hardest when my chest was pressed against hers.”

8. Let it rain cum!

“My ex loved cum. Swallowing it, facials, Cumming inside her, on her stomach, everything. Worked out amazingly as its been my fetish for years.

The rest of the time when we weren’t having amazing sex, we were growing apart until the inevitable conclusion.”

9. Tossed salad on the side

“My girlfriend in university wanted to lick my asshole to see if she might be a lesbian. Call it being shy-bi-curious, I guess.

I can’t say I hated the experience. But, the whole time I’m just thinking she’s imagining I’m a woman and how this probably isn’t the best or even a reasonable facsimilie. I could have at least shaved and taken a shower. But we were in the heat of the moment.”

10. Feet fetish indoctrination

“A foot fetish. I hated my feet and hated them being touched, so much so I even wore socks to bed at all times. He would ask to massage them or try to touch them and I hated it. I never got that he had a foot fetish though.

Anyway I eventually let him massage them and loved it. I loved having them touched and kissed after that. Even bitten or licked, toe sucking the works. I used them for foreplay and during sex. I love my feet now and I don’t know if I could date someone who doesn’t like feet cos it’s a massive turn on for me now.”

11. Taking anal play up to the next level

“My girlfriend is really into anal, but here’s the catch: she makes me pull out, and then she sucks my dick clean every 5 minutes. Also when partaking in anal sex she makes me finger her and then put my fingers in her mouth.

As for how it affects me, well I find it incredibly awkward to go to her parents house knowing that I completely violated their daughter in ways I didn’t even know were possible. But it’s alright, I’m kinda into the sex now, I was hesitant at first.”

12. But, is anything as good as naval play??

“I once dated a guy who had this weird fascination with my belly button. He would always be sticking his finger or his tongue in it, and once or twice kind of tried to jam his dick in it. It was kind of off-putting, but mainly just really funny.”

13. Role reversal

“A long term FWB wanted me to fuck him in the ass. I’m a female.

I was totally uninterested. And even a little afraid of the whole idea even though we already had some elements of BDSM in our relationship (me sort of dom, he a terrible sub). I didn’t shut him down, but told him I’d think about it. He took my non-rejection as consent and bought me a strap-on. I was still not into the idea at all when the thing was delivered to my house, but my roommate gave me some pretty great advice. She told me to do it despite my reluctance. I’d either hate it, and have given what he wanted a fair effort before shutting it down. Or I’d love it and discover something new and amazing. Regardless, at the end at least I would have a story to remember. I couldn’t argue that logic and we did it finally one night.

Holy. Fucking. Shit. That was one of the hottest things I’ve ever done. I got off on it, he got off on it, and my brain exploded. Honestly, I got a little into it before we began just seeing his reaction to seeing me in the strap-on. How could I not get turned on seeing someone want me that much. But fucking him? Was god damn magical.

I don’t need or expect it from anyone, but I would not mind being able to play like that with someone else in the future.

Tl;dr: 10/10 would peg again.”

14. Cum gogurt

“My first girlfriend in high school made me wear condoms when she gave me blow jobs. Not because she didn’t want cum in her mouth, but so when I did cum she could drink it like a gogurt. The worst part was that this girl was also Mormon, so when her parents found out we all had to have a “discussion” in their living room with my mom and dad. I was 15 at the time and the only lasting damage was the way I approached the parents of women I dated. If they even had an aura of sketchy, I bail.

Tl;dr — first girlfriend loved cum gogurts and afterward her Mormon mom tried to save my soul.”

15. Roleplay extraordinaire

“Ex was into role-playing. Like “Cop arrests hooker” and I’d have to interrogate her, handcuff her, search her, like I was looking for guns. “Doctor and patient” complete with white lab coat and stethoscope. We only did it two or three times in the six months we were together, and I couldn’t help but giggle the entire time.”

16. Golden showers got a little too golden

“Golden showers. I was not that down for him peeing on me but thankfully he was much more into being dominated and me peeing on him. We did that a few times before he asked me to pee in his mouth while he drank it. That was fine and we did that a few more times – I was ambivalent but he loved it.

We stopped doing it after he pushed me to do it on a day I wasn’t ready and was dehydrated. He said he didn’t care but once we did it he couldn’t deal with the concentrated taste and that ended his interest in that permanently. We moved on to other stuff but that was probably the only fetish we tried that I wasn’t sexually into at all personally.”

17. Does an ‘oink’ turn you on?

“Well, he wasn’t a bf, but close enough. He’d seen some French movie in which the kinky main characters dressed up as pigs (apparently not a porno??) and wanted to try that, except that only he would dress up. I went along with it (in those days I would have done anything just to dom a guy) and waited in the bedroom while he “got in character”, and then he came in on all fours in a pink spandex suit (like ballerinas wear in training) and a plastic pig’s nose on his face. Not even remotely sexy, but whatever, I could deal.

But then he started making noises…. At the first grunt/squeal a smile spread on my face but I managed to cover up my amusement at first. But he kept making those fucking hilarious noises and I just lost it. I started laughing and laughed and laughed and laughed until I was on the floor and thought I was going to suffocate.

When I finally got my wits back I realised he’d left at some point, understandably enough, and he never responded to my texts anymore. Oh well. The memory of it still makes me giggle.”

18. Public vibrations

“A friend of mine went out with a girl who had this really weird fetish where she’d shove a wireless bullet vibrator up her hooha and give her boyfriend the remote, then they’d go shopping and he’d try to make her lose it when she was talking to a salesman/clerk.”

19. Another biting story

“She actually used to nibble on my hand when we went somewhere and were holding hands. Super fucking weird, but when we broke up it was one of the things I missed the most. So I guess she turned me on to biting? O.o”

20. Spit at me.

“My last girlfriend and I were into almost identical things in the bedroom, the only thing she liked that i’d never considered before was that she liked it when people spat in her mouth. I did it a couple times and loved it. God I miss her.”

21. Sneeze on me!

“My ex-GF had a fetish for sneezes. Apparently sneezing was just one minor step from orgasm. The thing is that when she tried to make herself sneeze during sexytimes she looked like the poster-child for the word “Derp”. It ended quite quickly after my first hysterical laughter.”

22. When fucking isn’t enough…

“Smoking while fucking. Had to be a cigarette. Smoking a bowl didn’t do anything for her but if I was smoking a CIG while railing her she was all down for it. That and fucking in public.

Long story short I picked up smoking and I wasted a lot of gas driving around finding new places to fuck.”

23. Sex with extra calcium

“My ex was into lactation and nursing. Had me take pills to make my milk come in and even gave me a breast pump to encourage the flow. He’d nurse from me in the morning and in the evening. Was super weird at first but then I actually grew to enjoy it.”

24. Kit-Kats in the ass

“My girlfriend (I’m also a girl) is into eating chocolate out of my ass…yep, nothing shit related I always have an enema and clean my ass thoroughly before. I’m quite open to sexual experimentation but this threw me off a little at first since it was so… different I guess? I did end up doing it and we both loved it so we continued. We usually used Kit Kat or Aero since those were her favourite bars but decided to buy Oh Henrys this time and… uh… don’t.

We did the usual, she played with my ass a little bit then slid the bars one by one into me, I think we had four full size bars and eight fun size when she decided to start.

So I began to push but nothing came out… then I started bleeding, which happens sometimes but usually not in this quantity it then started to hurt, usually the bars slide out as easy as just taking a shit but this time NOTHING was coming out except for a trickle of chocolate and a lot more blood then there should be.

We both started panicking thinking what the fuck is going on! After ten minutes of hard core pushing and pain she could finally see it… a giant fucking ball of caramel and pointy peanuts. When I say giant I mean fucking huge it was the size of a fucking pineapple. It turns out all the caramel and peanuts in the bars formed this monstrosity from being shoved up and squished, I couldn’t even get it out, it was stuck.

My girlfriend had to shove her fingers into my ass and stretch it open to its limits to make this thing even move and by this point my ass was profusely bleeding because of the pointy peanuts sticking out of the ball cutting up my insides.

After half an hour we finally got it out. It was red with blood and I couldn’t even fit both hands around it. I had to sit on the toilet for a while afterward because my anus was still leaking blood everywhere. My ass hurt for days after.

tl;dr – Don’t shove caramel and peanut bars up your ass, you’ll cry.”

25. Someone likes it really hard.

“She likes it when I punch her, mainly in the ass area.”

26. Armpit fetish

“Not a girlfriend, but a girl I’ve been dating. She likes to stick her nose way up into my armpit and take big ol’ whiffs. It freaks me out a little bit and she tells me to shower, but not wash my pits… Kinda nice to think my stink doesn’t make her shrink.”

27. Extreme make out sessions

“Girl I was dating liked to make out with a razor blade in her mouth. Noped out.” TC mark

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7 Strangest Sex Fetishes: Do You Have One?

BY TEAM PTCBD

September 29, 2014

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What causes fetishes? There's no clear answer. "Why would a man develop a mask fetish?" asks Dr. Barry McCarthy, a therapist in Washington, D.C. "Could be something he read as a kid that's tied to 16th century Spain, who knows."

What causes fetishes? There’s no clear answer. “Why would a man develop a mask fetish?” asks Dr. Barry McCarthy, a therapist in Washington, D.C. “Could be something he read as a kid that’s tied to 16th century Spain, who knows.”

Whatever is causing the fetish, he says, it takes control of the individual’s sexuality.

We have listed for you the strangest 6 fetishes. Take your pick!

1. Agalmatophilia: Mannequin Love

Ever hear about motorists who stick a mannequin in the front seat just so they can sneak their way into the carpool lane? Well, some people use mannequins not in the car but in the bedroom. People with mannequin love, or agalmatophilia, may also be attracted to a doll or statue.

2. Partialism/Gas Pedal Honeys

Some people are turned on sexually by a specific body part – for example, a woman’s high-heeled foot. There are many websites devoted to so-called partialism, including those who love “gas pedal honeys,” images of stilettos on a gas pedal.

3. Salirophilia: I Like It Dirty

Showering before sex maybe the routine for some people. Others like the idea of getting dirty during sex – literally – or making their partner dirty,. This fetish is called salirophilia.

Some salirophiliacs like to smear the makeup, mess up the hair, or rip the clothing of their partner.

4. Paraphilic Infantilism: Diaper Me

Diapers aren’t for babies only. Just ask guys (and it’s mostly guys) with a fetish known as paraphilic infantilism, which involves wearing diapers and pretending to be an infant.

5. Odaxelagnia: Bite Me

Do you like to bite your partner? Or maybe you find being bitten a turn-on? You don’t have to have a vampire fetish to have what’s called odaxelagnia.

6. Dacryphilia: Are Those Tears?

Do you enjoy making people cry? No, not at the office, silly, in the bedroom. A person who gets turned on by tears – and maybe the emotional intensity that comes after making nice with his/her “victim” – is called a dacryphiliac.

7. Autoandrophilia: Just Pretend I’m a Boy

Women who are turned on by dressing up as and/or imagining themselves as men have a fetish known as autoandrophilia. Both heterosexual and homosexual women can apply.

玲瑄小姐 Lynsey

來自臺灣台中的玲瑄，用男人的肉身來過女人的生活就在新世界拿出真本事。 💝用這裡來收藏她的圖文創作。

性喚起、各種性癖整理、性偏好、促進與激發敏感帶

美國精神病協會(The American Psychiatric Association)的心理障礙診斷統計手冊(Diagnositc and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)

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